our list of things that we find sexy.

confidence!
a confident man is very sexy because he is more likely to be successful in life and therefore subconsciously a good provider!

clean hands!
c'mon - no matter what your job is - you can have clean hands! nice fingernails and soft hands are very sexy! i hate to see men with ugly hands - they can be handsome but if their hands are dirty it makes you wonder what else is! *yuck*

clean clothes!
no woman wants to be "instant mommy" and left with the job of washing your stinkin' clothes! learn to iron and wash your clothes and the ladies will love ya for it!

intelligence!
of course - a man has to be smart - even if he is not well-travelled he can sway a lady if he knows what's going on in and around the world! even better if he is tuned into what women want...and that's why you're here - still reading - right???

a job!
that should have been number one on this list but chances are you already knew that.

well-groomed appearance!
a pair of tweezers and small scissors do so much for nose and ear hairs and overgrown eye brows. don't pluck too much, just get rid of that uni-brow and the hairs that "strayed" from your natural hairline! does it hurt? uhm, a little... if you use a littlebit of ice first you won't feel anything - i promise!

clean socks and underwear (without holes)!
every now and then it's time to purge and get rid of those memorabilias from college!

Nice teeth!
if you smoke - which in itself is a huge turn-off - bleach, bleach, bleach. dentist can do this in one session or there are at home kits that work well, the best ones - custom trays molded by your dentist you hardly notice or feel. also nice - straight teeth. even if you were not blessed with parents who could afford snow-chains during high-school for you - there are other methods today that - for the same price - give you instant results (veneers, bonding) - go ask your dentist!

nice body!
(derriere, chest, 6pak, biceps)
any woman who doesn't like a man who's cut is - lying. but you don't have to be perfect. if you eat healthy and show that you care about your health - it's a good thing. and every woman has her favorite parts like you men have yours. most of my ex's have been butt-men *g* and the 3 things i personally look at first are:
eyes, hair, hands and stay away from the gyno fetish guys!..ewww...

oh yeah...2 more things - secret!